‘Bachelorette’ Alums Jef Holm, Robby Hayes Fighting, Restraining Order Filed

Jef Holm and Robby Hayes

Things are apparently getting intense between former roommates and Bachelorette alums Jef Holm and Robby Hayes. It seems the two of them are at war with one another. What is going on between these two grown men who used to be friends and even roommates?

Feud between Jef Holm and Robby Hayes leads to legal steps

US Weekly shared details about what’s going down between Jef Holm and Robby Hayes. Court documents obtained indicated Jef took legal action to seek a restraining order against Robby. The paperwork was filed by Jef at the Los Angeles Superior Court. According to the documents, Jef alleges that Robby keeps coming into their once shared residence without permission to do so.

The court issued a temporary restraining August 9 to keep Robby away from Jef. In the documents filed to obtain the order, Jef said, “Robert used to live at my house but does not now. He continues to enter the premises & harass me & I do not feel safe around him.” He continued on, “He threatens me and still hasn’t stopped to this day.” The documents also indicate Jef saying, “He claims he has belongings there & that’s why he enters but he is not on the lease and is making me fearful.”

Jef also wrote on the statement which reportedly began in July, “I was alone in my home when he entered abruptly and aggressively started threatening me & I felt very unsafe.” He continued, “[Robby] yelled at me and threatened me and entered without permission.”

According to Jef, Robby comes over and is hostile at least once a week. He’s asking the courts to order Robby from approaching his place of employment, his car, and his home.

The hearing to determine whether or not the order will continue or become permanent is scheduled for August 30.

Their Bachelorette histories

Jef appeared on the franchise during Emily Maynard’s season. He was her final pick. The two got engaged. However, their engagement was short-lived. The two split just two months later.

Robby appeared on Season 12 of The Bachelorette. He was the runner-up on JoJo Fletcher’s season of the show. She ultimately sent him home and chose Jordan Rodgers. They are still engaged today and planning a 2022 wedding.

Robby went on to compete on Bachelor in Paradise. He hooked up with Amanda Stanton on the show. However, the two ended things before the finale aired.

What do you think about the chaos going on between Jef and Robby? Are you shocked?

Stay tuned for more updates.


Jamie Colclasure

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