‘Bachelor’ Rachael Kirkconnell Reveals Shocking Lesson Breakup Taught Her
Rachael Kirkconnell is still getting over her breakup with Bachelor Matt James. It appears from her social media that she is doing her best to keep busy. As time goes on, she is also opening up more about their split and how she is coping. Along with that, Rachael also shared what shocking lesson she has learned from it all. What did she say? Keep reading to get all the details.
Bachelor alum Rachael Kirkconnell Shares Lessons Learned From Split
Bachelor alum Rachael Kirkconnell is still processing her breakup with Matt James. She and Matt were together for four years before their sudden split. She opened to E!News about how she’s doing two months after everything went down.
When she looks back on her relationship, she shared she doesn’t have any regrets. She believes everything happens for a reason and she’s trusting the process. So, while it may be sad and she may always look back on how things ended and be bummed out about it, she feels it was a blessing in disguise.
As for what she has learned, Rachael shared that she learned “I think that from things that I would take away, would just be standing up for myself a bit more and just not losing your confidence or not putting yourself aside for someone else.”
She went on to say, “I think it’s really easy to get lost on putting yourself first at times or making sure that you’re being seen and heard. Of course, you’re wanting to show others how much you love them and care for them, but you can’t forget about yourself.”
Fans have said that they felt for quite some time that Matt James was disrespecting her in multiple ways. It sounds as though she is seeing her worth now.
To those who think she’s just frustrated and heartbroken, she says she reminds herself that she’s thankful for everything she went through.
What She Wants In The Future
Bachelor alum Rachael Kirkconnell is also sharing what she wants in a partner moving forward. She was quick to point out that she is in no way ready to date anyone after her breakup. However, she does know what she wants.
Rachael is looking for someone who will uplift her the way she should be uplifting herself. She wants someone to give unwavering support. She also wants her person to be considerate.
Overall, she does not have any other specifics and she has no idea what her future person will look like. Rachael also said she’s not looking for someone specific and is open to a lot of different things.
She reiterated that this is in the future because right now she is still figuring things out after not being single for four years.
One thing is certain, Rachael has shared that she will never take Matt back. He did not handle their breakup in a respectful way and she can’t move past that.
What do you think about Rachael sharing that she has learned to stand up for herself more? Stay tuned for more updates.
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