'90 Day Fiance' Fans Blast Vanja Grbic For 'Victim Complex'

90 Day Fiance star Vanja Grbic had one of the most heartbreaking stories in the latest season of BF90. Many fans were saddened by the heartbreaks she suffered from Božo Vrdoljak and Josko Luketin. Vanja remains positive despite all the difficulties she has suffered. However, some Redditors think Vanja has shown no respect for boundaries and suffers from a “victim complex.” Keep reading to see the discussion.

90 Day Fiance: Vanja Grbic Suffers From Traumatic Experience

The previous episode of the BF90 Tell-All featured Vanja’s shocking reveal. According to the 90 Day Fiance star, Josko recorded their intimate moment without her permission. Many cast members called out Josko for what he did. He later apologized, but some criticized him even more, believing that he was only sorry because he was caught. But despite the traumatic experience, some fans think Vanja also has issues to deal with herself.

Vanja Grbic From 90 Day Fiance, TLC, Sourced From TLC YouTube

Vanja Has A Victim Complex?

Some 90 Day Fiance fans on Reddit discussed Vanja Grbic’s disturbing behavior throughout the season and the Tell-All. According to the poster, Vanja appears to have a pass whenever she crosses a boundary. One of them was when she pushed Božo to show intimacy despite him openly saying that he was not interested in a romantic relationship yet. She continued pushing him at the Tell-All, which prompted his decision to leave.

Vanja Grbic From 90 Day Fiance, TLC, Sourced From Reddit

Aside from that, Vanja also shocked the OP for trying to work things out with Josko even after he called it quits with her. The Redditor also mentioned that Vanja insisted on talking with Adnan backstage even after he told her that he didn’t want to talk to her. Several commenters believe Vanja was showing a “victim complex” by blaming other people and not seeing how much she crosses the line.

“She has a victim complex and it rubs me the wrong way. “Its clearly not my fault non of my relationships work” yes you are partly the reason. Overbearing, clingy, jumps into way too much too quick, love bombs. I honestly have had guys do the same and be WAY too available/needy and it makes me walk away too, but the fact she thinks she can do no wrong is the real kicker to me.”
“she’s constantly going at 140mph and apparently feels as if there’s nothing wrong with her and everyone else is the problem.”
“She has a classic anxious attachment pattern. But, unlike most anxious attachment sufferers, she has zero self awareness and believes her dating problems lay solely with the guys who run away from her scary, pushy, insecure behavior.”
“Yessss! This is exactly Vanja and she doesn’t see anything wrong with her actions! If a man pushed boundaries like she did, we would call him lots of names. I don’t think she is a bad person, but I can’t stand her.”

90 Day Fiance: Vanja Grbic Continues To Stay Positive

Despite the criticism, Vanja Grbic continues to share her happy life online. The 90 Day Fiance star is back sharing clips and pictures from her belly dancing performances. She also took to social media recently to share her massive shoe collection, all of which are organized by color. Vanja has yet to share updates about her relationship status. But many fans are glad that she’s dealing with the heartbreaks gracefully.