'90 Day Fiance' Fans Blast Josh For Using Lily Amid Money Woes

90 Day Fiance stars Lily and Josh continue to struggle in the latest season of TOW. The two are currently navigating their relationship in China. Josh has been caught lying multiple times by Lily and her daughter, Vivian. The latest episode also featured the couple’s struggles to pay for their wedding. Some viewers have accused Josh of using Lily for her money, but some Redditors think it was her way to express her love. Keep reading to see why.

90 Day Fiance: Fans Accuse Josh Of Using Lily

A Reddit thread previously called out Josh following their episode in which they were paying for wedding bills. Josh was supposed to pay for the remaining balance in order to proceed with their plans. However, his card was declined, and he was scared everything they worked hard for might get left in the dust. Some Redditors think Josh may have intentionally restricted his card to make Lily pay for their wedding.

Josh & Lily From 90 Day Fiance, TLC, Sourced From TLC YouTube

Lily Expresses Love Through Money?

Some Reddit users discussed Lily’s expenses for Josh throughout the season. According to the poster, they’re starting to think the 90 Day Fiance star “equates” money with showing love to Josh, which ultimately leads her to being “broke.” The poster added that Josh never wanted the house and that an apartment was good enough.

Lily & Josh From 90 Day Fiance, TLC, Sourced From Reddit

But Lily insisted, and some believe it was her love language. Others agreed and mentioned how some people in China spend money for someone to express their love more than verbally, which may be what viewers are seeing between Lily and Josh.

“I’m not Chinese so I can’t comment specifically about Chinese Culture But I am west Asian, In Cultures like of China people express love through acts of service more than verbal.”
“I’d say money is also much more talked about in Chinese culture. It’s less of a taboo to mention how much something has cost you, and monetary gifts are an important part of gift giving (think about the red envelopes exchanged during holidays).”
“This actually makes sense. I had thought about it being cultural as well. I just wasn’t for sure.”
“I think she sees money spent as a measure of love. But also, I think she can sense that something is very wrong here. She feels like she’s being used and the only concrete evidence she can point to is that he won’t take out his wallet.”

90 Day Fiance: Lily Doubts Future With Josh

TLC has also released a new synopsis for the upcoming TOW episode. According to the network, Lily “has doubts” about her future with Josh. TLC also stated that the first episode of the Tell-All will feature cast members debating Josh and Lily’s s*x life. It seems intimacy is still an issue between the two. The first part of the Tell-All also teased a mystery couple announcing a shocking breakup.