‘sMothered’: Where Do Angelica & Jason Stand, Still Together?

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sMothered returned for Season 4 last night. It allowed for new cast members to be introduced. At the same time, updates were given on the returning cast. One mother/daughter duo back for another round was Angelica and Sunhe. Fans were eager to know what happened with Anglica and her fiance, Jason. Did they end up tying the knot? Read on to find out what transpired between the couple.

Where The sMothered Couple Left Off

It was a big season for Angelica and her partner, Jason. They welcomed their baby Amara while also getting engaged. However, the engagement caused a lot of drama for the duo. Jason had been married prior and his mother was not too thrilled with this new engagement. She is not a huge fan of Angelica in general and wants her son to get married for the right reasons. In her mind, a baby is not the right reason. Yet, Angelica and Jason have been together for five years so that seems pretty serious and ring-worthy.

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Angelica

He does not appear to let on to his mom, Toshiko just how serious this relationship is. That they could get married at any moment or that they have set a date. At the same time, Angelica’s mother, Sunhe has been difficult, as well. She has not always been completely on board with the relationship. When Season 3 ended, though, the couple was looking to get married and all was right with the world. Did they seal the deal or is that still to come this season?

Happily Ever After?

According to Starcasm, the sMothered couple did indeed call off their wedding. Not just their wedding but Jason and Angelica also called off their engagement. Though they have called off the wedding, she admits that they are still together. She feels they are not ready to take the leap however it does not appear that they have any intentions of breaking up. Angelica adds that she wants Jason to want this more and it does not feel like that at the moment. Furthermore, their mothers played a huge part in the demise of the wedding.

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Sunhe

Neither mother supported the marriage. Therefore, Angelica could not go into it knowing this. Plus, Sunhe had no reservations saying that she felt her daughter could do better than Jason. In fact, she was thrilled when Angelica called off the wedding. It appears she is quite hopeful that Jason will be gone for good. For now, the three of them are all still living together, and baby Amara. As for what will happen in the future, that is anybody’s guess.

Do you think Angelica and Jason should try to work it out or is it over? Let us know in the comments and watch sMothered Mondays on TLC.

Amanda Lauren

25 Comments

  1. These mothers are crazy. I wonder what would happen if these smothered cast got together with I’m with a mama’s boy case. Oh what fun.

  2. Sunset, Angelina’s mother hates her life and herself so she’s dedicated what time she has left to ruining her daughters life

    1. yes! I absolutely agree! any good parent wants to see their kid happy and with their own family. Sunhe is just a lowdown sorry POS!

      1. Totally agree!! my kids & I are EXTREMELY close! I was a young mother! But; this show CROSSES the line! it makes this look Incest And gross!

    2. This is one sick mother! There is no real love for her daughter at all. No wonder she is not with her own partner, who would want her?? As a mom of 3 girls, l have never or would l ever interfere with their marriages at any time. I really hope Jason finds a great girl for him and a nice step mom for the baby. She deserves what she gets. Synge, your a terrible mom!!

  3. The following is the advice I would give to Jason:

    Here’s my take:

    1) Predators, abusers, and bullies pick their prey. This could be triggered by jealousy or the need to discharge negativity. Bullies and abusers also pick their prey with the anticipation they won’t have to pay a price for their cruel behavior. The normal trajectory for this behavior is for it to get worse. You are being abused and bullied. This is about power and control. Do not expect this situation to improve until you take certain steps to make that happen. I recommend you get professional legal help and expert counseling.

    1) We ALL have our good points and bad points. We ALL make mistakes.

    2) Sunhe has decided to focus on what she considers your bad points. It makes no difference whether she’s completely right, partially right, or partially wrong or completely wrong. Her performing household and baby sitting chores does not give her the right to berate and demean you, especially on a constant daily basis.

    3) If you allow this bullying and disparagement to continue, your sense of self will be eroded, which will affect every part of your life, including your work, health, and ability to co-parent.

    4) You and Angelica have decided to bring a child into the world. Now Amara is here and she deserves to be healthily coparented by both parents.

    5) Your job as a father is to protect Amara from harm, whether physical, mental or emotional. It is your duty. Amara also needs you to be a present in her life.

    6) Sunhe needs to respect your position as Amara’s father and support your role in Amara’s life. She doesn’t do that. She undermines you at every opportunity. I believe she’s guilty of alienation of affection, particularly regarding Amara, and the results of her efforts will become more evident and deleterious with each passing day, let alone year.

    7) Angelica also needs to support your role as father. She passively accepts Sunhe’s disparaging remarks about you and even chimes in. This is not only bad for you, it’s bad for Amara.
    8) Sunhe is grooming Amara to consider her the center of the universe, just as she did Angelica. Sunhe treats you and Angelica as if you’re superfluous. Again, this is about power and control.

    9) Amara will consider what is going on around her as normal. She only lives in one home, can’t see what happens in other homes; and, in fact, may never consider her home life unusual, despite its toxicity. At worst, she will never acknowledge the harm the situation has wrought and may even duplicate it in her own adult relationships.

    10) Amara sees and hears her father being disparaged by Sunhe, constantly and daily. This is very destructive to her, as you are half her heredity. She may subconsciously feel like she’s half of a bad seed. Despite her inability to verbalize much at this stage, she understands more than you know. She will also be trained that to show you love and affection is to be disloyal to her mother and Sunhe.

    11) Sunhe wants you gone, gone, gone. The sooner the better. She counts on you to let this happen, and for you to go quietly into the sunset.

    12) You will need to assert your right to coparent your daughter. I think you will need help, both legal and professional family counseling, to find your way through this toxic situation.

    13) Watch Season 2, episode 6, “Drive You Crazy”, in which Angelica asserts that instead of Sunhe moving to Oklahoma to address the distance issue in their relationship, Brett should move to Las Vegas. Brett said he wouldn’t do that with two sons, age 13 and 16, who need his guidance. Angelica replied that they were teenagers and old enough not to have their father in the vicinity. Her lack of introspection and self-reflection here is appalling and should concern you. Sunhe’s take was that Brett wasn’t putting her first. Again, this is self-interest to the extreme. Both Sunhe and Angelica believe Brett should give up proximity to his minor children, so Sunhe and thirty-two year Angelica can live together in Las Vegas.

    During this episode, Sunhe demeaned and threatened you and totally robbed you of the joy you expected for this outing, and that was her intent.

    14) Both Sunhe and Angelica seem proud to proclaim to others they are “close”. They seem to believe this announcement (read: warning) insulates and entitles them to carry on what I believe is a harmful codependency, even when it affects others, such as Amara, Brett, and Jason, i.e., both Sunhe and Angelica believe Brett should move to Las Vegas and leave his minor children, rather than Sunhe move to Oklahoma; Sunhe believed it was fine to commandeer your mother’s room at your house, and even point this out when she was showing your mother around during her visit. According to them, all others should subordinate their own needs and preferences in deference to their “closeness”.

    Sunhe also likes to cloak her behavior under the guise of being a protective mother, when, if fact, she’s a suffocating mother that wants to keep total control over her adult daughter for as long as she lives. A good parent guides and teaches their child and gives them wings so they can be independent and get along without them. Instead, Sunhe has brainwashed her daughter to think she can’t get along without her. Angelica has thoroughly bought into this. Again, power and control rule.

    15) You, Sunhe, and Angelica are all adults and can voluntarily opt out of this toxic situation. Amara is the one person who is most vulnerable and cannot. She deserves your protection. As her father, you’ve been tasked with that job. Do not underestimate the lengths Sunhe, with the complicity of Angelica, will go to downgrade and erase you from Amara’s life.

    16) Don’t think that if you follow all Sunhe’s edicts she will approve of you. She won’t, because to her you represent competition for Angelica’s loyalty. She will not tolerate that.

    17) You may have more help available than you know. If it can be proven (the show sMothered provides a lot of proof) both Sunhe and Angelica are alienating Amara from you, you may have legal recourse. Here’s some info on parental alienation syndrome. https://www.griffithslawpc.com/blog-articles/parental-alienation/

    18) This is a serious situation that can potentially suck the life out of you and damage Amara for life. Again, talk to a lawyer and a good counselor. Pick them carefully; they’re not all alike. Interview them to see if they have experience with this type of situation. Read their reviews, if possible. Based on my own experiences with counselors, there really is a vast difference in them. Don’t be afraid to change if you don’t feel you’ve got the right one for you.

      1. If my mom had been like any of these mothers I would have moved to another country. these women ned a life, where the husbands, they must be henpecked.
        I also wonder who decided on the wardrobe for Sunhe and Angelica. the clothes don’t even fit their fat bodies. Why do women feel they have to expose themselves.
        I could also say that Cher and Dawn need a break from each other .

    1. BINGO! You very eloquently, calmly, patiently and kindly wrote what I was thinking plus some. Amara needs her own bed, period! Jason needs to grow a pair. Sunhe needs a straight jacket; that woman is gone. Angelica is still a young child of about 5. She needs her Mommy because Mommy has not allowed her to become an adult. Amara, sadly, will need counseling because this whole thing is toxic. That’s tv, right?

    2. Wonderful advise. Hope Jason takes it. I find Sunhe suffocating Mother. Very narcissistic person. She needs Counseling
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  4. Jason needs to leave and get custody. He is being severely abused. Sings is sick in the head and Angelica is just as warped. You will never see win. Fight for full custody.

    1. I agree 100000000000% he needs to put them out of his house and get a lawyer and get custody of his daughter how can you tell this man not to give his own child a bath something is sadly wrong with the mother and daughter in my opinion honestly

  5. I don’t understand why Jason stays in that situation. Get a court order, get rid of the girl friend and Sushi or the miserable old woman that wants to be 20 again. Sushi needs to be thrilled that someone loves her daughter, let’s face it, there are not a lot of fish in the sea for the daughter. I have never seen a grandma so miserable and wants everyone to be miserable with her. I feel so sorry for that baby, what a life she is exposed to. A grandmother that is doing everything to make sure the baby doesn’t have a father in her life.

  6. I feel sorry for Jason! Sunhe is overbearing and honestly Angelica isn’t mature enough to be doing this relationship with him! She needs mommy way too much in a really unhealthy crippling way, I feel sorry for Amara growing up raised by Sunhe because Angelica won’t take the reins back as her mother. I can’t believe Jason was booted out of the delivery of his own child, Sunhe is evil to take that from him, and from Angelica they needed the family bonding from the start and she took that from them! IF SUNHE LOVES ANGELICA AND AMARA SHE WOULD BACK OFF AND LET THEM LIVE NORMAL LIVES, It’s SELFISHNESS ON SUNHE’S Part she’s so scared of being old and alone and that’s just what she’s gonna get in the end anyway! I can’t figure out what gave her the impression that she is queen Sunhe or something with the right to judge anyone else!!! She’s just a very NASTY AWFUL WOMAN!

  7. Sunned is a witch, Jason get your daughter out of there before sunhe destroys her. Sunhe is a sick witch and if Angelica isn’t careful she will lose her baby also. Her mother wants CONTROL

  8. as a retired judge, sunhe is toxic and has issues, dangerous to the little girl. Jason should acquire competent legal representation. seriously Angelica? you thought he was rude and packed a bag for him to leave his own house? yikes, toxic

  9. Sunhe is a terrible person and mother, narcissistic. Angelica needs to stand up for herself and Jason. Sunhe puts Jason down every chance she gets, what man would put up with Sunhe living in his home. Sunhe and Angelica need counseling, this is not normal behavior. I totally agree with Andy’s advice. Sunhe wants Angelica and Amora all to herself, so selfish. Amora needs her father in her life and Sunhe will make sure that doesn’t happen, and she will brainwash her as she did Angelica.

  10. I believe Jason can do better than Angelina and that mother!!! Just take care of the child snd find true happiness 😊!!!

  11. Jason, take Andy’s wise advice. You will live to regret it if you do not. The saddest part is that Amara will be the one to suffer in the end. Sunhe is a narcissist toxic bad seed. Angelica is a pathetic excuse of a Mother and even worse as a daughter. You might have the fight of your life. It will be worth it to save your daughter from these two psycho demented women.

  12. I agree, Jason should have never left his home. He should have put sunhe and angelica out and get a lawyer and try to get custody of his daughter. Angelica’s mom will never let her have anyone. There will always be a problem with every man she meets. Sunhe should focus on her own man and let angelica live her life and be happy

  13. I feel like Angelica is going to miss out on a good man she need to put in her big girl draws and tell her mom to butt out and how in the world can you put this man out of his own house…..Sunhe wants Angelica to remain single and stay with her she will never ever be able to be happy and live her life for herself as long as she constantly let her mother interfere with her relationship and I feel it is really sad her mom is being selfish and not giving her daughter the space she needs as a grown woman to be with her man and daughter and her daughter is to blind and act like she is scared of her mother and the fact they have everything to say negative about him and then when he is with his daughter is literally sad and the daughter going to think Sunhe is her mom Angelica really needs to wake up and see her mom will never be happy about anybody she dates and she need to realize that

  14. Sunhe is a evil narcissist. I watched the bathroom scene where they got naked in the tub drinking wine and looking at each other’s anatomy. I found it disturbing they act like lovers. When Sunhe talks down Jason Angelica joins in and puts her two cents worth in too. First off that’s Jason’s house he goes to work every day for you to provide for you and Amara. He gets zero respect in his own home. I bet neither one of these women pay a dime. But they sure can bitch and point the finger. Jason is being bullied both of these women act like they are some kind of goddess. I suggest they take a good look in the mirror neither one is a prize. Angelica is a weak brainwashed woman unable to tell her mother no. And you talk about Jason being disrespectful I suggest Angelica you listen to your mother she is the rudest most disrespectful evil person I have heard she is not a nice person she’s bitter.Jason hire a attorney and run run from these toxic witch’s co parent your child and don’t look back
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  15. Sunhe is so selfish. She intentionally sabotaged her daughter’s relationship. She just wants her daughter and granddaughter to herself. It’s so disbursing to watch. Pushing Jason out of his own house smh. She’s so rude and disrespectful! She needs to let her daughter live her own life or she will be single forever. Jason needs to grow a pair and get that mother out of there. And grow up Angelica! Cut the cord for Christ sake.

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